Showing posts with label giving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label giving. Show all posts

1/8/14

Who Is Least, Who Is Greatest.

Over and over Jesus uses the least of us all, and the smallest, and the weakest, to make point of who is truly the greatest. Like the poor widow who gave two coins as her offering, in a temple buzzing with so many others giving lavishly, Jesus remarked, "Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all of them. For they all contribute out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on." Luke 21:1-4

And it is no different today. Even now, in the hustle and bustle of our world, and the lavishness of so many of our lives--who is truly the greatest? "He who is least among you all is the one who is great." What does this mean for you, for me, and for the modern world? How often we wait to give of ourselves once we have a little more. A little more time, a little more energy, a little more money in our banks. But God reminds us that out of our poverty, out of the last of what we have and in our down right bottom-dwelling moments, we can make the biggest change, if only we cling to the hope and belief that we can.

So I challenge myself, and you, wherever we find ourselves today. Whether you are struggling to give, or perhaps waiting to take that leap and place down your last two coins. Whatever these two coins represent in your life; what might happen if you give them? What if, just what if, those two coins were used to make all heaven ensue. What if in giving out of your poverty, in giving when you and I think we have nothing more to give, we give the last of it, and God uses that faithfulness to overflow and change the lives of even more than we can imagine.

This is the visual I'm trying to capture. The visual of what big faith, combined with giving all that we have, can do in a world where so many hesitate to take that leap, take those copper coins out of their pockets, and give them up:



I love how the little girl who gave up her two coins is standing front and center this whole time. When they showed us this clip at church a few weeks ago, I literally was covered in chills. Do you think that the little girl is setting down coins in front of street performers for the rest of her life with the hope that one day this will happen again? Probably. But how sweet that hope and faith is, when you have it. Do you believe that even out of your poverty, even in your least, that you can be used for greatness? Believe it.

11/25/13

8 Ways You Can Give To A Women's Homeless Shelter

Thanksgiving is three days away, which means its that time where we feel even more compelled to give thanks and give back. And although I feel we should embody this compulsion as a way of life, not just around the holidays, sometimes it is hard to get there (or know where to give, and how), and embrace the art of unconditional giving. So, over the next few weeks there may be a few more posts with ways that I hope inspire giving back--and not just now, but year round. 8 Ways To Give To A Women's Homeless Shelter was an article I wrote for Thoughts By Natalie last month. You can read the original piece--over here ; or read it in full below. To find a women's shelter in your community, you can simply search by starting here.


Over and over, I am reminded of this reality: Our world is fleeting. Unlike me, there are woman who lack the privilege to choose from a closet full of clothes when deciding what to wear. They do not have a full pantry, where come breakfast, are faced with the choice between oatmeal or peanut butter toast. There are women who do not get to choose between hitting snooze or waking up early to go on a run. You see, there are woman (women just like you, and just like me, with personalities, passions, and working hearts and minds) who wear one outfit each day with hopes that maybe, just maybe, they'll get to wash it in a shelter sink that night. There are women, who are given breakfast bags and food despite whether they like it or not. And women who, upon waking up when the sun rises or when the temperature's too unbearable for sleep, do not get to stay in the warm comforts of a bed because bus routes don't care about snooze buttons, and signing up for shelters means early rising. It's these realities, those of the women I have gotten to know and care for while spending nights at a women's shelter—I'm reminded over and over that my comforts are not for keeps.

Many people ask how they can help, or what they can do to make a difference in the lives of homeless women. Not everyone can give up a night or two each week to stay awake while women sleep and find safe sanctuary in a night shelter. And not everyone feels comfortable giving to the individual standing on a street corner asking for help. But before you decide where you fit, and how you are willing to give, remind yourself of this: Your comforts are not for keeps, just as their comforts were stripped. Not everyone who is homeless chose to be that way. And if you can't give anything at all, remember that simply saying "I hope you find a warm place to sleep tonight," can speak volumes to the person who receives them. Because, really, what I've come to know in my time staying with woman at a shelter in Denver each week, is that the biggest things you can give is acknowledgment and words that make that individual feel seen, and even more—valued. In a world where homelessness often becomes invisible to those who are not around it, or choose not to see it, simple words can be the biggest way to give.

A practical way you can give, helping women feel cared for as if they were guests in a dear friends home, is by donating a few things to your local shelter. Women at the shelter often ask for the simplest of things; mostly items that we take for granted or bundle up as our very own comforts.

ONE: Gently Loved Blankets
Think of your coziest spot. It typically involves a blanket. Shelter's are often strapped for blankets that aren't from the "reject" pile, which means many of the women sleep with itchy fabrics or throws that are too small for warmth. The next time you do some cleaning out, and find some cozy blankets in your giveaway pile, perhaps drop it off at a local shelter.

TWO: Brown Paper Bags, or preassembled Breakfast Sacks
Not all shelters provide breakfast bags for the women before sending them off to greet the day. But should they, brown paper bags and ziploc baggies tend to run out of quickly. Donating these goodies can help keep breakfast bags assembled. You may want to check with a local shelter to see if they are in need of preassembled breakfast sacks. Especially if you're a foodie or love to bake, what a great way to give back by baking muffins, cooking hardboiled eggs, and placing fresh fruit all together for the women to enjoy.

THREE: Face Wash
After a long day, how refreshing a clean face feels! Donate travel size, or full size, face wash for the shelter to offer to the women. As many shelter's do not have showers, a sink to wash one's face is a simple luxury.

FOUR: Magazines
I brought magazines into my shelter the other day and the women LOVED it. They told me that the magazines, and books, that are donated get brought to other shelters and rotated around, making reading while laying on their cots before sleep a bit more like home.

FIVE: Soap
This is a daily necessity, and often shelter's run out of a simple thing like soap. Any toiletries are always a great thing to donate, and shelter's are always so thankful for having extras on hand for the women that stay each night.

SIX: Wet Wipes
Travel wet wipes that the women can carry in their bags to and from shelters and around the city are a small comfort that makes a big difference. How great it feels to be able to sleep with clean feet, or use the wipes when a shower isn't readily available.

SEVEN: Socks
Every weekend I have women asking me if we have more socks. And more often than not, we don't. The next time you're at Costco or Ross, pick up a bargain package that is filled with socks that you could give to your local shelter. Warms feet during cold winter days outside can make all the difference. How simple socks are, yet how high the demand is for them at the shelters.

EIGHT: Coffee
When the lights go on at 6 o'clock at the shelter I volunteer at, coffee is surely what gets the women going. Yet, we run out quickly. Typically, it is the hosting church or building that spends their budget on things like coffee beans, cups, creamer, and sugar packets. Donating bulk sized ground coffee may keep that coffee available for the entire month. Think of how much you enjoy your cup of jo--so do the women at the shelter! For those women who set off to go to job interviews, meet with case managers, and walk the cold city streets this fall and winter, that cup of warm brewed coffee can really start the day off great.

10/29/13

Donate a Bra | Free The Girls

You probably have figured it out by now that I'm pretty passionate when it comes to advocating for underprivileged women. So when Dave shared the vision behind Free the Girls at church this past Sunday, I wanted to find out even more about the non-profit, and how this organization has turned the second hand clothing market in Mozambique, namely reselling bras, into a business endeavor that empowers women coming from extremely abusive situations and the world of sex trafficking. And after reading more, I knew I had to tell you about it. Not only is the non-proft giving job opportunities to women rescued from sex trafficking, but they are being sensitive to these woman who have been so taken advantage of, even worse than we can fathom, by having their work be mainly focused on a female market --selling bras-- with female mentors alongside them.

SO WHAT’S THE PROBLEM?
Currently 27 million men, women and children are being held as slaves around the world— more today than in any other time in history. 80% of those slaves are women and girls. There are a number of amazing organizations that are helping to rescue these women out of a life of prostitution, but what happens after they are rescued? Many safe houses and aftercare facilities are doing great work in providing comprehensive rehabilitation and educational opportunities to survivors, but often their resources are limited.

OUR SOLUTION
By partnering with safe houses and after-care facilities, we provide an opportunity for women rescued from sex trafficking to earn a living selling second-hand clothing while going to school, getting healthy, and caring for their families.

WHY BRAS?
"Let’s face it, ladies: the back of your underwear drawer is most likely a graveyard of bras you don’t wear anymore or that never fit right in the first place...